Next time you are arguing your point remember -
Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable and it keeps no record of being wronged... Three things will last forever - faith, hope, and love - and the greatest of these is love. 1 Cor. 13:4-5 & 13
Greatness doesn't force itself on others.